Tuesday, 4 September 2018

The 'Beyond' Begins...

This was always about Bhutanical adventures, and wow! What an adventure that was in the Land of the Thunder Dragon. Years have passed by but these restless wandering legs of mine don't settle easily... so the 'Beyond Bhutan' bit finally begins...


(warning - this post is a bit 'involved')
  

Part 1


I was idling by a river last week enjoying the play of light and the maundering burble of purling waters. Like this:



I was wondering about 'Africa'. Why? Because I'm going there. For 2 years. I've taken a teaching job near Nakuru in Kenya.

I've been wondering about 'Africa' since leaving Bhutan. I thought to myself, "if I ever do this again, where would it be?" And there was nowhere else: Himalaya or 'Africa'.  Kenya is my way in because that's where I found the school I wanted. There's plenty of reasons to go. You probably know most of them. There's plenty of reasons not to go too. This post is largely about reasons. But it was written in Great Britain before leaving. That Great country of ours. Still Great, after all these years. Some people might want to stop reading now (eek), but here we go...


'The UK' - a relatively safe and splendid pocket of the world. You can still live well if you find a decent job and work hard (ish), eating Argentinian beef and New Zealand lamb, mixing gin and tonics and watching millionaires kick footballs. All the natural teeth have long ago been pulled - we  killed anything wild that might kill us. The 'insert adjective' Empire furnished us with such an absurd headstart that wealth still runs like rivers through select channels - some of my friends don't even need to work much because their family houses turn the work of those less fortunate into an income for leisure; the landed gentry has swelled to encompass those who still stick their flags in the ground  of liberals and socialists, an impossible balancing act. 

Old Blighty has its share of devils - it's an aggressive country with a government that excels in sophisticated corruption, visibly on the decline with tatty airports and falling apart schools and hospitals (see 'sophisticated corruption'), not to mention being peopled largely by functioning workaholic/alcoholics - but as Kylie opined, better the devils you know. 

The fabric is tearing on this idyllic couch of ours and even when it feels hunky-dory - perhaps after a stroll in the white-washed countryside and a few pints with a pie - tiny cracks are chasming. We tell ourselves its ok, partly because pessimism isn't really allowed, and we recycle! And we're all good people.

It's ok!

Unless you have kids. Then it niggles at you  deep down that this lingering simulacrum of a cosy existence, be it carved out or inherited, just isn't going to last. In ye olde times, people used to leave things for the next generation; the new norm of borrowing forward doesn't work when the next generation is facing bankruptcy, both economic and environmentalBarring a miracle of science or the supernatural, we are the dying embers of the profligate age and our children's children look set to be the first ashes. 

A friend once told me that the arrival of children signals the end of despair because you can't have a child and simultaneously not have hope. She didn't mean that the child brings this hope into your life. She meant that if you love your children, your heart will break and break again if you let hope slip. So you fudge it or mangle it or make do if you have to - you make it not go away, even if it means a loosening of principles, a shift in politics, changes in behaviour. Or a pulling down of shutters.


Quick! Buy a house and hide in it. Work more. Only allow manageable quantities of the world in. Strive hard for comfort and security, resist change. Buy I-Pads. Shop on Amazon. Watch football or Netflix. Get drunk.  Pull the shutters down, for God's sake. Get through. Eeeek... 

In the Chinese Classic Yueh Chi - the Memorial of Music - it states that: music expresses the accord of heaven and earth. In that case...




Part 2



Back to the purling waters. What was I thinking about, sitting there wondering at the ripples? That I could make a simple choice...

1) Be like the water that pools at the edges (supporting a narrow biome of life but growing fetid with time - symptoms: hoarding stuff, buying houses, seeking security, pretending we'll live forever etc).

2) Be like the water that purls and meanders in the middle (playing with the light and keeping pace with the fizzling of existence - symptoms: minimal stuff, tread lightly, engage with new experience, live as if you'll be dust).

I went for the second option. This time. Perhaps as much out of habit as principle, but I shunned the security of the backwaters and slipped into the river. Great Britain is a backwater, for sure. From the vantage point of Bhutan it resembled a doddery, old, farting, retired general trying to get the VHS working and banging on about the sodding war all the time. I do love it. Parts of it. But I wish it would stop wetting itself and dribbling on about immigration and the royal family. I wish it would drop the Great and be honest about its place in the world. 

So I won't be putting fuel under the belly of the banks by buying a house and I certainly won't rent it for profit, pension or travel money to those less fortunate than me. I may be an idiot on this front, but if I acted otherwise, the feeling that I was something worse would gnaw at me. RANT: nobody should charge rent way beyond the cost of their mortgage just because 'the market' says so, especially to people they have the temerity to call friends; a free house should be enough - shame on you. 

(I mentioned this to Ammato, my new neighbour - exactly this - and I asked him if he thought I was an idiot, and he turned to me and said - NO! you re a socialist. Thank you Ammato - you are the first person who hasn't treated me like a weirdo for it. He went on to point out that socialism is not possible any more, so I may still be the idiot. Capitalism has crept into everything; we used to call it greed, now we call it necessity, when often it isn't. In Kenya, the government actively legislates against socialism, possibly as a reaction to the failed 'socialist' states that emerged out of the post-independence scramble, mostly headed up by egomaniacs who confused socialism for industrial revolutions and the gathering of huge personal wealth and stature... where was I?)  

I certainly won't change the world or any of these things. In Kenya I'll see wholesale corruption on a crazy scale amid a Chinese land grab and an infrastructure campaign that's being replicated all over the continent. If Russia and the Middle East now own London, the Chinese are getting hold of Africa, which makes Mrs May's trip all the more desperate and hilariously out of touch. 

I'll try to keep pace with the fizzling of existence and playing with the light by going somewhere alien and unfamiliar and find myself being... me. I'll strip back again, live with less and tread lightly with small footprints. I'll go with the living waters and try to put my concerns, cares and fears where they belong... in the air. Fear makes us run to our fenced-off back gardens, and I get it - it should. But let the wind have my fears, as it will one day have all of me when this ends and I go back to the river. 

Bhutanese monks are taught to envision their own annihilation and the end of everybody they know and love on a daily basis. It's terrifying in our culture, liberating theirs. We cling to permanence where there is none, they cleave to transience and change. So - move to Africa. Why bother with why when you've got why not? As the deputy head said to me, of course coming out here is nuts, but you get to live in Africa! Meanwhile half the world is struggling to survive. The other half is struggling to live well. And the Earth is struggling to keep it all going, and more people are coming everyday to add to the mindless trampling. But the light still plays on the rushing waters that purl and fizzle and give life, time ticking by inexorably, as a steady illusion that binds our egos to it all. 

Take your clothes off.

      Let go your industry. 

             Let slip some ambition. 

                     Jump in and go swimming :-) 



Part 3



Is this why I am going to Kenya? Not entirely. I was forced to drive at 30mph on an empty four-lane M5 at midnight. That contributed too - bring on the flow of unregulated traffic, let slip the controls. So partly, that too. And of course, lions. And hippos. And colour. This sort of thing:






Next post will be less intense :-) and more 'pictures'



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